Wednesday, 5 July 2006


One of the first things we learned as new parents is that every day brings something new...good or bad. We were happy when my boy outgrew his snuffling began enjoyed sleeping at night.

Then, we got excited as he showed:
- developing motor skills (rolling over, standing up, grasping objects, grabbing objects!) and
- more sophisticated social skills (more smiling, laughing, grumbling, bashful looks, complaining, squealing...).

During his third month, I noticed crusty, dry skin on his calves. Dry, white or light brown flakes covered the front and sides of his scalp too. I keep forgetting to mention it to his paed because we have to keep an eye on this wriggling, loudly squealing baby! (I need to bring a list of questions)

When the paed saw them, she declared them eczema and I found this on
"One study suggests that children with a family history of allergy-related problems (like atopic dermatitis) who were weaned from breast milk before the age of 4 months were more likely to develop recurrent eczema than children who were weaned later.
If possible, babies should live on their mother's milk exclusively for the first three months, and doctors advise continuing breast milk for at least up to six months (preferably one year) as you introduce your baby to solid food.
To avoid triggering food allergies that might bring on eczema,do not offer any potential problem foods (such as eggs, nuts, or fish) until your doctor gives the OK.
Babies should also be protected from such potential allergens as tobacco smoke, pet hair, and airborne irritants such as mites and molds."
This is disturbing as many of the above factors apply to him:
a. family history of allergy-related problems- he has his father's smooth, fair skin BUT it is sensitive to dust, heat, sweat, chlorine, grass and a million other allergens.
b. weaned from breast milk before the age of 4 months- I'd started him on a mixed diet around his 4th month i.e. 3 oz breastmilk + 1 oz formula. Now, he's taking 2 oz formula. I've got to go back to 100% breastfeeding.
c. tobacco smoke- I can't run away from this as my Dad smokes!
d. Pet hair- Lots of stray cats behind my parents' house and many would saunter into the garden to nap, poo or have kittens! There must be a lot of their hair in the garden, in which he spends a lot of time.
e. Mites and molds- There should be a huge amount of this around too since my parents' house is rather old...err, and dusty!
Anyway, here's how I care for baby's eczema:

Keep him cool. He's dressed in light, cotton fabrics and NO polyester or other man-made materials.

Lukewarm or cool baths, no showers. Hot water and showers are drying to the skin, did you know? I also add some bath oils so that he'll be covered with a light layer of emollient. He now uses SebaMed's gentle cleansing solution and NO soaps, which is also drying for the skin.

After bath, while he's damp after the towel rub down, we apply a thin layer of SebaMed moisturizer all over his chubby body.

His Pureen, Johnson & Johnson and other over-the-counter brands lotions are either used by his father or me for our hands or feet :-)

Regular moisturizing. Before he sleeps, I'll slather on another layer of moisturizer. Hubby bought this Aveeno oatmeal-based cream from the US, which works really well on him :)

He also bought this Aveeno oatmeal-based bath solution, which I place in a cloth bag to avoid a mess.

If your baby sleeps in an air-conditioned room, he'll need even more moisturizing. Better yet, switch off that air-conditioner as it creates more problems like flu and coughs although it's cooling...

Keep baby's fingernails short. In case he sweats, he'll want to scratch because eczema is very, very itchy! Sometimes, I'll put his mittens on again to prevent further damage.

Stay away from seafood. One day, he had a SERIOUS break-out of eczema and we were mystified until I remembered that I ate an extra large helping of chilli crabs the day before! As I'm still breastfeeding him, I'm more cautious now of avoiding crabs, squid, scallops and prawns.

My parents' home is a real hot house and they are adamant about not installing an air-conditioner. It's a real obstacle as our apartment is quite cool without the need for an air-conditioner but we are not there!

He sweats a lot there and I would wipe him down again in the evening when I return as he'd be sweaty anyway after my Mum sponged him earlier. I'd also put the fan on high whenever I'm with him at home but my traditionalist Mum would turn it down for fear of making him too cool. Poor boy would be in hot sweat frequently there =(

We are at a dilemma due to our 2-homes arrangement - I'd hired a half-day maid (RM400/month) to help out with the housework though I find that she's inefficient because the floor and other areas are still dusty.

I'd started weaning him off his night feeds but I'm reinstating this as he was problem-free during the months he took more breastmilk. This means less sleep for me - a huge sacrifice as I need to drive 45 minutes to an hour to and from work. Then, there's my smoking Dad and pet hair. Too many factors working against baby's eczema here!

During the weekends, we'd bring baby home and he's nice and cool there. Recently, we'd begun exploring daycare options around our area with horrendous results (my next post)! Anyway, am keeping our fingers silently crossed (and with lots of trust in God) that things will work out soon as we've found more and more doors opening and leading us the way back to our home...

In the meantime, I can only continue to gripe about the state of un-cleanliness at home, beg my Mum to keep baby cool and dry, up his breastmilk supply and perhaps introduce baby lotion to his grooming routine to help reduce the dryness. Sigh!

Friday, 31 March 2006

I am not well...

Just when my days of adjusting to this noisy world and the quirky people in it begin to take hold, I'm now not well. Papa and Mummy were very excited to see me gaining ground slowly as the weeks go by.

I feed about every 3 hours during the day and in between, I spend time looking, smiling and responding to Mum's face as she talks and sings to me. When evening falls, I definitely do not want to be in the spring cot and will demand to be taken into the room to feed and sleep on the bed. That's my favorite spot coz I can sleep for 4-5 hours there, even forgetting to wake up for my milk-milk he he =)

Even bath times are fun now coz no rough and loud auntie but Grandma or Mummy who chats with me and gently but methodically make sure that every inch is clean. I smell really good after a bath!

Unfortunately, the days are getting colder and rainfall is more frequent. Mum dresses me up in long sleeves and pants and wrap me up snugly yet I sneeze even when I'm in the hall with all the doors and windows closed.

At night, even with the room door closed and the fan switched off, my nose still gets stuffy and I wake up many times as the phlegm bugs me then and I find it hard to swallow. I can still feel the cold, night wind seep in through the windows.

Papa and Mummy have sleepless nights again.After the third day and with no improvement, Papa and Mummy decide to bundle me off back home to Grandma's place again where it is always hot and stuffy.

They are very worried about this phlegm as I also have some eczema on my eyebrows - indicators which are linked to asthma. Papa had asthma when he was a baby too but the doctor said that with care, they can prevent me from developing it.

Mummy is most fearful of having to bring me to the hospital to suck the phlegm out...thank God the nice doctor said I'm still too tiny for such a drastic measure.

My Mama and Kung Kung (paternal grandparents) have given Mum some more tips on how to care for me since they did the same for Papa when he was small. Of course, even with all this fuss about me, I still smile and gurgle to Mum, oblivious to all the fuss & worry about me. Sigh! The innocence of babes.